Friday, September 3, 2010

My Story

This blog initially started as a way to keep myself accountable throughout my weight loss journey. While it certainly served as a huge aid during that process, it has also developed into something more. I share healthy recipes, workouts, and tips to make the most of your life.  

Given the rapidly rising rates of obesity and obesity-related diseases in this country, weight loss is an extremely relevant and necessary topic. However, I am not a weight loss expert, rather I am just sharing my personal experiences in the hopes that I can provide inspiration/insight/motivation for others. If there's one thing I have learned, it is that weight loss is not a sprint. It is a marathon. Time, adaptability, and consistency are key. And of course, the lifestyle doesn't end after you reach your goals - it is a way of life and while the struggles never cease, it is completely worth it.

If you'd like to read more about where my journey began and how I was able to reach my goal weight, read on. This story depicts my journey to who I am now.
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Since beginning my weight loss journey in 2008, I have lost and kept off over 50 pounds. This is my story.


Growing up, I was an active kid. In addition to playing sports (basketball and volleyball), I was just generally active and energetic. Athletics were a huge part of family and I never had to worry about my weight. 

Not only that, but I was also pretty unconcerned with what I put in my body. Fast food was a frequent offender. As were salty processed snacks, chips, and everything in between. Veggies and fruits? Few and far between. 

When I got to high school, I stopped playing team sports. Instead, I started to work out with friends. Nothing too serious - just the elliptical and Tae Bo a few times a week. I still ate crap, but I managed to stay at a steady weight. I suppose that is the beauty (or maybe the curse) of being young.

That all changed when I had my son. Even though I had him young, my post pregnancy body was completely different. I could no longer eat whatever I wanted without working out - it was time to start being more conscious of my body and what I put into it. 

At that time, the Atkins diet was all the rage. The grocery store aisles were packed with low-carb this and low-carb that. Of course, I believed all the hype and jumped on the bandwagon. In all honestly, I lost a lot of weight. With a steady diet of meat and cheese, I was back down to my pre-pregnancy weight no problem.

The downfall? Literally, the second I reincorporated carbohydrates back into my diet, I regained the weight. Plus some. I'm pretty sure the low-carb diet totally messed up my metabolism.

Rather than seeing the diet for what it was, I just reasoned that the only way I could lose weight (and keep it off) was to follow a low-carb lifestyle. Because of the nearly instantaneous positive feedback (i.e., the weight loss), I conditioned myself to feel that low-carb was the answer.

But in truth, I had just never really tried any other way to lose weight. The Atkins diet was the first true "diet" I had ever tried. I got pretty great results, so I just latched on to the idea as "the only way." Over a period of a few years, I yo-yoed a ton. Low carb, low weight. High carbs, high weight. Fun stuff.

Once I started college, I completely abandoned my work-out routine and my low-carb eating went out the window with it. Almost immediately, I was back up to my highest weight.

And then even more weight slowly started to creep on - it happened so slowly that I almost didn’t notice those first 10 pounds! As I gained weight, I also lost a ton of energy. Not a day passed that I didn't feel tired, sluggish, and just totally blah. Before I knew it I had packed almost 40 pounds onto my 5’4” frame.

In August of 2008, I saw pictures of myself at a friend’s birthday dinner and I couldn't believe my eyes. I was so disappointed in how I had let myself go. I guess I had been in some sort of denial up until then. Pants getting tighter? They must have shrunk. 

Around that time, I can vividly remember standing in a dressing room trying on a size that I had never had to buy. And that size ended up being almost too tight. That did it for me. I had had enough! That was all the motivation I needed.

From that day on, I started going to the YMCA a few times a week. Initially, I would walk on the treadmill or do the elliptical. After about one month, I had lost 10 pounds. I also noticed a dramatic increase in my energy and general mood. 

After that first 10 pounds, my weight loss stalled. That is, until of my best friends started planning her June 2009 wedding. She recruited me as her “look great in my wedding dress” work-out partner. We took measurements, weighed ourselves, and vowed to each lose 20 pounds by June [this pact was in January of 2009].

We started out walking 4 miles a few times a week. Eventually, we built up to running. We'd run about .25 miles, walk, and repeat until we hit 4 miles. 

At that point, we both still claimed to hate running. Looking back, I think I was just scared to try something that I knew would be such a challenge. While I have never shied away from intellectual challenges (in fact, I gravitate toward them), physical challenges were somehow more daunting.

Since the day we started our work-out plan, I have surpassed my weight loss goal by about 15 pounds and adopted a healthy lifestyle to boot.

After I had lost the first 20 pounds, something just clicked. I’m not sure how else to explain it. I just intuitively knew what my body needed and I began to exercise for reasons other than weight loss. I love the energy boost that results from a good sweat. There is nothing like it. These days, if I don't work up a sweat - then that sluggish, low-energy feeling starts to creep back.

Around August of 2009, I stopped eating meat. I read the book Skinny Bitch and from it I learned a lot about factory farming and inhumane treatment of animals. My reason to stop eating meat began as solely an ethical decision and transformed into a lifestyle that I now love!

Today I feel great in my own body. Where I was once hesitant and concerned of what others would think, I’m now confident and secure. A healthy lifestyle has impacted every area of my life: both physical and mental. 

So why start a blog? Well, somewhere along my journey, I discovered health blogs. When reading blogs, I couldn't help but to be inspired and motivated by the writer's passion for healthy living, exercise, and whole foods. 

As my own knowledge of healthy living increased, I realized that I, too, wanted to share my passion for health and wellness with the world. Enter: The New Healthy
 


And the rest is history.

Want more? Check out: My Story: Part II.

Thanks for stopping by. I truly appreciate it. 

64 comments:

Andrea said...

Hi Stefanie! I just found your blog through Food Buzz and wanted to say hi! Welcome to the healthy living blog world! I loved reading your story and saw so much of myself in it! :) Congrats on reaching and maintaining such an awesome weigh loss goal. You look great!! I must also say, you are the third person in a few weeks to mention reading and learning a lot from "Skinny Bitch" so I think that's my sign that I should finally read it!I also love Turbo Fire as well! I look forward to following along with your blog and learning more about you!

Stefanie said...

Hi Andrea, thank you so much for the welcome and compliments! I'm so excited to start the journey into the blog world:) When I first picked up the book "Skinny Bitch" I was not expecting to learn much at all (the title is a little misleading!). But it was truly a great and eye-opening read, I definitely recommend it! Turbofire lovers unite :) I'm heading over to your blog now and I will be following along!

reshapeyourlifeblog.com said...

I can totally relate to your story. I am only starting my journey, but stories like yours give me hope for the future and motivation to keep going! Thank you!

Rachel (Two Healthy Plates) said...

Hey, glad I found your blog through foodbuzz - I'm really excited to follow along with you!

Stefanie said...

Thanks Rachel, I'm excited for you to follow along as well!! :)

TheHealthyapron said...

Hey hun! just found your blog and loved reading your story! You look so fit and healthy and it's great to finding inspiring bloggers like yourself!

Lisa said...

Thats so inspiring! You look amazing girl. I admire your motivation and your ability to really tune into your body. Its something that I strive to do each and every day! =)

Janetha said...

You look great! Good for you for turning your health around.

Stefanie said...

@Janetha Thank you!! :)

Stefanie said...

@Lisa Thanks Lisa! It was and still is a journey, but it's a journey that well-worth it! :)

Stefanie said...

@TheHealthyapron Thank you! If I want this blog to do anything, it's to inspire others!

ashleigh said...

Congrats on all of the positive changes that you've made! You look fabulous.

Stefanie said...

@ashleigh Thanks Ashleigh!! I had to double check that spelling. ;)

I checked out your blog and you look AMAZING yourself! <3

Sheila said...

I love reading your blog. You have made some great positive changes.

Lisa @ I'm an Okie said...

your definition of health is something i can get behind! great story!

Stefanie said...

@Sheila Thank you Sheila! I'm so glad you stopped by! :):)

snackgirlgoeshealthy said...

WOW! Awesome story!
You look faulous! Great job!

Stefanie said...

@snackgirlgoeshealthy Thank you for the sweet comment! :)

thisitalianfamily said...

Oh my gracious, you are gorgeous! And congrats on your weight loss! :)

vvvv said...

hello nice the meet you!your blog is great!
I go watching well a blog. Thank you.

Stefanie said...

@thisitalianfamily Thank you! Your sure know how to make a girl blush! :)

Kathleen @ Kat's Health Corner said...

Wow!!! Such an incredible story!!

I love your blog! xoxo

Sophia @ Raven Waves said...

So great to meet you Stefanie!! You have a new fan! You're in my favorites page now! :) Have a Happy New Year's Eve!

Lisa said...

What a great story! I look forward to reading more :)

Priyanka said...

Wow Stefanie, I am so inspired by your story. I had the same notion too,that to lose weight I have to be a low carber (so not true). Love your blog!

Stefanie said...

@Kathleen @ Kat's Health Corner Thanks so much! :)

Stefanie said...

@Lisa Thanks so much! And happy reading! :)

Stefanie said...

@Priyanka I'm so happy that I realized the whole 'no-carb' notion is untrue!

I'm so glad you're inspired--that's what I like to hear! :)

greensk8r said...

Hey there, Stephanie!
I am so glad I found your blog!! Your story is so inspiring and I'm so glad that you are happy and healthy now :)
I will look forward to your posts! Follow my blog if you'd like (it's a health blog even though the name's weird--what can I say...I'm a red-headed figure skater?!)
http://greensk8r-fireandice.blogspot.com
:D

Laury @The FitnessDish said...

What a great story!!! Very inspiring, not "cliche" at all!

I went vegetarian on and off from the time I was 12. It's funny, because I became a vegetarian the second time around for a lot of the same reasons you said you did. I read The China Study and The Food Revolution by John Robbins. They both changed me, and I don't think there is any turning back. I tried going vegan, but it didn't work for me. The end of this past summer (after about 4 months of an almost vegan diet) I noticed my muscle tone was going down a little, I felt I looked my BEST at a point I was still eating a little animal protein. However, I found out I was pregnant the beginning of August, so I have no idea if it was that, or the diet. I am not willing to go back to meat, but I did start eating eggs and some fish again (wild only).

Enjoyed reading your story. I think your blog is adorable and inspiring!

youngwifey said...

What a wonderful story! You look great!

thefitnessapple said...

I noticed you said you were 5'4 I am too, Wondering I you knew what a healthy weight for that height is... thanks! :)

P.S. I too had gone through losing 20 lbs from high school it was hard and took a lot of work but I think blogging has helped me keep it off the past month and a half

Kate @ Diethood.com said...

You're gorgeous Mama!
Everyone has a story and I applaud you for sharing yours - you are an inspiration to others.

Jenny said...

I love your motivation and very inspiring story. Will definitely be a reader, best of luck :)

Amy at TheSceneFromMe said...

Great job girly! And I love the leopard dress :)

jqlee said...

hey gorgeous girl, congrats on all your success!!

sweethunnijar said...

I came across your blog - I have just made my own and am still trying to learn how to use it ! You look radiant and beautiful and your son is adorable

Cara said...

wow you look great! you really inspire me to keep up my blog, eating healthy and working out. Congrats!

redhead75 said...

Great story! Veggies rock!!!

Laura @ Meet Virginia said...

Hi Stefanie! Just found your blog through The Fitnessista. What an inspiring story! I love your blog and am about to add it to my Google Reader so I can read often! :)

myhighonlife said...

Hey there Stefanie! I found your blog through Raven Waves. You're story is not cliche--its you! You look fabulous!! Definitely will be returning! :)

-Karla

callie said...

I just came across your blog and had to read about you - What a wonderful story! I've definitely subscribed :)

Katy said...

Hey! I just came across your blog, and I'm adding you to my blogroll! I'm really impressed with your journey, and can't wait to read more! You should check out my blog at www.runnintothealtar.blogspot.com

@LivingLindsay said...

I just LOVE hearing successful and healthy weight loss stories. Good for you!! I've lost 109 pounds since last January with healthy eating and exercise and I'm determined to keep it off!! It really helps to see people who have been successful at both losing and maintaining - congrats!

Nichole ( eat &amp; be pretty ) said...

Love your story! The post-high school weight gain happens to the best of us but what's important is recognizing it and making a change... not many people can say they did that. Look forward to keeping up with your blogging :)

Kelly said...

Wow I absolutely love your story!!! Such an inspiration, thank you for sharing! Love your blog as well! :)

Tara said...

Great job!!!! what an accomplishment. You should be proud of yourself every day. I'm happy I came across your blog. Looking forward to reading more :)

herenownotforever said...

congrats!!! love your refreshing blog btw..and your so pretty!!

Kimberly said...

I love your blog!! Plus we have very similar stories. I'm trying to lose the college weight that slowly crept on. Thanks for being such a great inspiration!

Alana said...

You're such an inspiration & you're so beautiful. I stumbled upon your blog a couple of weeks ago and I have been reading ever since. Keep doing what you're doing! :)

Ellie@fitforthesoul said...

heyyyy I love this story! And you look very fit and healthy~ :D

Kate Kedziora said...

I just read your guest post at the Healthy Apron. LOVEE your story! So inspiring! I am so happy I found your blog :)

Amy-Nutrition by Nature said...

I just came across your blog! Very nice, I have enjoyed reading through it. Look forward to reading more! :-)

Brittany @ A Spoonful of Peanut Butter said...

Hey Stefanie! I just found your blog and I'm really enjoying it!! :D I couldn't agree more with you on what you said about when you don't work out you feel sluggish. I feel the same way! Congrats on the weight loss! You look fabulous!

healthy ways to lose weight said...

Awesome story.. I like your presentation way..

amj08e said...

Loving your blog! Just saw it was your blogs birthday and I am super excited! I figured this blog had to be around awhile, it seems simply amazing but you are pratically a newbie! hope you realize I will be stalking you no on! Pleas go read my blog, I feel we could be blog friends

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dosii said...

looking great girl!! you're an inspiration to many! Keep up the good work :)

Katie said...

This is so fantastic... I'm so glad you've been able to find balance and happiness in your life. Your story is a great reminder of how important health, wellness, and eating is for so many people! Thanks for sharing!

- Katie at www.ohshineon.com

Nerd said...

Hello Stefanie! I have been reading your blog for a couple of months and just now stumbled on your story and I am very impressed with your lifestyle and I am looking forward to reading more and keeping up :)

/Victoria
http://healthandfitnessnerd.blogspot.com/

Emily @ Perfection Isn't Happy said...

You look great! I found your blog through FitFluential...I noticed that you are the only other person from Indiana :)!

Megan said...

Hello! I just discovered your both through One Healthy Munchkin. Congratulations on your transformation, you look fantastic :)

Jennifer said...

So glad to have found your blog. I'm currently 23 lbs in to a 50 or so lbs weight loss. You are a huge inspiration and i'm looking forward to following your blog :)

Cara Craggett said...

So impressed by you! And so inspired! I'm adding you to my blogroll!

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